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By Bobby
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Online Flirting while in a relationship

Category: By Bobby
I have heard that people flirt even when there are in another relationship. I am talking about online flirting and this is a major issue if there is no understanding between the two. Some say that they are not flirting, they are just being friendly. But is that so? How would you fell that you are engaged to someone and your partner enjoys chatting with other males or females online. Whether it is just friendly talk or deep intimate talk, you will feel upset if your partner does it. At the same time, there are others couples who enjoys it either way. The problem arises only when either of the partner is not fine about it.
I definately would not want a partner who would be full time flirting online and thinks its ok no matter what i would tell her or him. But I guess there are people out there who might think otherwise.

Well either way, if you are not comfortable with it and he or she is still going to keep it up, then i guess you will have to think about your relationship twice before you take your next step.

 

hmmmm....

By Bobby
I was just wondering, its been a little while since I started writing my blogs and till now I am not very sure if anyone at all is reading my blogs. I would appreciate some suggestions and comments to left behind by those of you who might be reading this. Well if you can either say that my blogs are interesting or just plain boring, but either way, do say something. Unless some one asks me something how can I give advice. So do ask me....
 

Never take an argument to bed...

By Bobby
A friend told me today that the worst thing that any couple can do is take and argument to bed and sleep it away. Mind you, this is the last thing anyone should ever do, in fact do not do it even if it's the last alternative. Always talk out your arguments, clear it, admit mistakes (who ever needs to admit), do not be egoistic, sorry might not be the easiest word to say for some, but belive me, it is one of the most powerful words to solve any problem. Taking a little time to talk out your problems or difference and finding the root of the problem is the best way to finish off arguments. Another line that goes with this saying is never keep an argument, suspicion, doubt or a question for the next day. Clear everything the same time you think of it. This way, nothing builds up, keeping thngs for the next day means making it build up, when either of these build up, the ending can be disasterous. Why face disaster when there can be peace. So people, next time you have an argument, or a doubt, a question, or even a suspecion, do not KEEP QUITE, or LEAVE it for the NEXT DAY, just talk it out. Thats all, just talk.


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Something you should never do...

Category: By Bobby
From my past relationships i have learned a very important lesson, that is you should never force anyone to do anything, especially the girl. If you are having trouble with your relationship, and it reaches a situation that it can not go any further, at this point never force the either to continue the relationship. Forcing someone to continue only makes things worse. By chance if you continue, it only going to get worse. If he or she wants to leave the relationship, let them because if they truly want to continue the relationship they will come back to you. And if they do come back on their own, then be sure, the relationship will only get stronger. Coming back on their own means that they have realized what had gone wrong. Forcing someone to think that they have done something wrong will only make them think that they have not done anything wrong. So next time you are in such a situation, be sure not to make such mistakes.
 

Love's relationship with music..

Category: By Bobby
Music has been a part of love ever since man learned to love. Love and music go hand in hand. Infact every beat of you heart is music to your partner. Have you gone through that feeling when you are driving along the road listening to your favourite radio station and all of a sudden they play your favourite love song, at that point of time, whose thought comes in to your mind? You see, every music is related to a heart and where there is a relation with the heart then there obviously is love. The best of all love songs that really make you drift away are those that are legends now. Listining to them really makes it worth falling in love. Music from Boyz II Men, Lional Richie, Glen Mederios, MLTR, Take That, Boyzone etc., are just some of my favourites. Which one's yours? So guys and girls, fall in love and dance away to the music.

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Things to do when you are away from your loved one...

Category: By Bobby
I find that doing the following things everyday keeps a relationship going strong because it simply says that you are in his/her thought at that moment and your are not forgotten when away.

1. Give a miss call on her/his mobile when you get up in the morning.

2. Send a small good morning text while you are having tea.

3. Miss call her/him when ever a thought comes into your mind.

4. Secretly leave a reminder on her/his mobile, so that the alarm goes on when she is least expecting it.

5. Secretly fill her/his mobile calendar with messages for each day, believe me, they would love waking up to a lovely message each morning, i definitely would.

6. Last but not least, send her/him a message just before you go to sleep wishing her/him a good night ending with the words I LOVE YOU.


Try them and see and I assure you that your relationship will be stronger than before.



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Your first feeling of attraction

Category: By Bobby
How do you know when you are attracted to someone? I have noticed that whenever I am attracted to someone, the first sign is always the feeling you get when your eyes meet. Its that strange feeling that makes you shiver within yourself and your eyes are locked on to hers as if by some unknown force holding it together and you cant take your eyes away. This is when you can be 100% sure that there is a mutual feeling of attraction between the 2 of you. However strange the feeling is, it is so wonderful that you actually wait for the next time for it to happen again. Thats how you get restless each day to see that special someone who has attracted you and you eagerly wait for your eyes to lock again, and even though you are too shy to look, it so happens that your eyes still engaged each time you see her. Isn't it a great feeling. I am sure everyone has had that feeling and everyone looks forward to that each day when the relationship is just fresh.



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Advice to a freind

Category: By Bobby
I have a friend, and this friend of mine always had a problem with relationships. I will call this friend X. Now X has this ego problem. She has pre set views on how her boyfriend or lover should be. And whenever she meets someone, she is always looking for those predetermined facts. But, till date she has not found that person. I tried explaining to her many times, do not go searching for certain characteristics in people. In fact, the very first thing you should look for in a person is whether you are comfortable with him or her. Do you have to act as if you are someone else in front of him, or can you be yourself. Will you be able to act a little childish, do something silly or just talk your mind out. Does he or she get bored of such things. Well, if they dont, then i tell you, this is the person you should give a chance to. Because, falling in love means, finding that right partner where you can do all the things you already do and he or she will also join in. When we share same feelings, same qualities, same likes and dislikes, then we might have hit the jack pot.

Well, this is what i explained to her. But she still does not understand. What do you guys say, do you think I am at least a little right? Let me know who else supports me on this so that i can tell my friend X that what I am telling her is not just my view.

Thank you.

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Love and it's Varities

Category: By Bobby
Love is universal, love is demanding, love is variety.

What do i mean mean by variety?

Well love definitely comes in varieties, love for you parents, love for you brothers and sisters, love for your friends, love for your desires, love for celebrities and the most important of all, love for your special someone. If i describe every for of love, then its as vast as our universe itself. Thats what i would like to do here. In time, i will explain all its varieties according to my views. Mind you, i am no expert at love, nor am I a professional in giving advices. I am just one of you, someone who has gone through each step, someone who still has a long way to go, someone who has an entire life worth living. I, myself will be taking that most important step in life, that when you find that perfect someone who will share your life. That perfect someone who is worth giving all my love. Thats the ultimate destination. But love doesnt end there now does it? Ofcourse not, love does not have an ending, it just keep going on and on. We get love, then we learn to love, then we fall in love, then we love, then we give love and we get it back and then it carries forward, on and on.


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My perspective of Love...

Category: By Bobby
What is love, where do we find it? Can we buy it, can it be earned, can you give it away, and just show it? What is it about love that no one can live without, if you are not loving, does that mean you don't know what love is?

Well, those are just few of the questions that might relate to any normal person. Love is all around us. We cannot hide from it. Even the most ruthless person has love inside him/her. Even a new born baby as all the love to give. Although love is found every where, there are different forms of love. We an probably put down almost all the possible kinds love. But that not the quest of my blog site. What i would like to offer is help, a friend when u need, someone to talk to, everyone who has love in their life will surely have difficulty showing it all the time. I mean, there are times in our life that even though we might love someone so much, and do every possible way not to hurt them, there will be 100% chances that we still might hurt them, but of course, unintentionally. And once you hurt your loved one, its not easy to get back to normal again. This is where i come in. Let me know your problems and i can suggest ways of solving your problems. I am not an expert at this, but of course, everything is worth a try. Don't you think, because love is worth every help it can get to heal.


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