I find that doing the following things everyday keeps a relationship going strong because it simply says that you are in his/her thought at that moment and your are not forgotten when away.

1. Give a miss call on her/his mobile when you get up in the morning.

2. Send a small good morning text while you are having tea.

3. Miss call her/him when ever a thought comes into your mind.

4. Secretly leave a reminder on her/his mobile, so that the alarm goes on when she is least expecting it.

5. Secretly fill her/his mobile calendar with messages for each day, believe me, they would love waking up to a lovely message each morning, i definitely would.

6. Last but not least, send her/him a message just before you go to sleep wishing her/him a good night ending with the words I LOVE YOU.


Try them and see and I assure you that your relationship will be stronger than before.

How do you know when you are attracted to someone? I have noticed that whenever I am attracted to someone, the first sign is always the feeling you get when your eyes meet. Its that strange feeling that makes you shiver within yourself and your eyes are locked on to hers as if by some unknown force holding it together and you cant take your eyes away. This is when you can be 100% sure that there is a mutual feeling of attraction between the 2 of you. However strange the feeling is, it is so wonderful that you actually wait for the next time for it to happen again. Thats how you get restless each day to see that special someone who has attracted you and you eagerly wait for your eyes to lock again, and even though you are too shy to look, it so happens that your eyes still engaged each time you see her. Isn't it a great feeling. I am sure everyone has had that feeling and everyone looks forward to that each day when the relationship is just fresh.

I have a friend, and this friend of mine always had a problem with relationships. I will call this friend X. Now X has this ego problem. She has pre set views on how her boyfriend or lover should be. And whenever she meets someone, she is always looking for those predetermined facts. But, till date she has not found that person. I tried explaining to her many times, do not go searching for certain characteristics in people. In fact, the very first thing you should look for in a person is whether you are comfortable with him or her. Do you have to act as if you are someone else in front of him, or can you be yourself. Will you be able to act a little childish, do something silly or just talk your mind out. Does he or she get bored of such things. Well, if they dont, then i tell you, this is the person you should give a chance to. Because, falling in love means, finding that right partner where you can do all the things you already do and he or she will also join in. When we share same feelings, same qualities, same likes and dislikes, then we might have hit the jack pot.

Well, this is what i explained to her. But she still does not understand. What do you guys say, do you think I am at least a little right? Let me know who else supports me on this so that i can tell my friend X that what I am telling her is not just my view.

Thank you.

Love is universal, love is demanding, love is variety.

What do i mean mean by variety?

Well love definitely comes in varieties, love for you parents, love for you brothers and sisters, love for your friends, love for your desires, love for celebrities and the most important of all, love for your special someone. If i describe every for of love, then its as vast as our universe itself. Thats what i would like to do here. In time, i will explain all its varieties according to my views. Mind you, i am no expert at love, nor am I a professional in giving advices. I am just one of you, someone who has gone through each step, someone who still has a long way to go, someone who has an entire life worth living. I, myself will be taking that most important step in life, that when you find that perfect someone who will share your life. That perfect someone who is worth giving all my love. Thats the ultimate destination. But love doesnt end there now does it? Ofcourse not, love does not have an ending, it just keep going on and on. We get love, then we learn to love, then we fall in love, then we love, then we give love and we get it back and then it carries forward, on and on.


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What is love, where do we find it? Can we buy it, can it be earned, can you give it away, and just show it? What is it about love that no one can live without, if you are not loving, does that mean you don't know what love is?

Well, those are just few of the questions that might relate to any normal person. Love is all around us. We cannot hide from it. Even the most ruthless person has love inside him/her. Even a new born baby as all the love to give. Although love is found every where, there are different forms of love. We an probably put down almost all the possible kinds love. But that not the quest of my blog site. What i would like to offer is help, a friend when u need, someone to talk to, everyone who has love in their life will surely have difficulty showing it all the time. I mean, there are times in our life that even though we might love someone so much, and do every possible way not to hurt them, there will be 100% chances that we still might hurt them, but of course, unintentionally. And once you hurt your loved one, its not easy to get back to normal again. This is where i come in. Let me know your problems and i can suggest ways of solving your problems. I am not an expert at this, but of course, everything is worth a try. Don't you think, because love is worth every help it can get to heal.