I have heard that people flirt even when there are in another relationship. I am talking about online flirting and this is a major issue if there is no understanding between the two. Some say that they are not flirting, they are just being friendly. But is that so? How would you fell that you are engaged to someone and your partner enjoys chatting with other males or females online. Whether it is just friendly talk or deep intimate talk, you will feel upset if your partner does it. At the same time, there are others couples who enjoys it either way. The problem arises only when either of the partner is not fine about it.
I definately would not want a partner who would be full time flirting online and thinks its ok no matter what i would tell her or him. But I guess there are people out there who might think otherwise.

Well either way, if you are not comfortable with it and he or she is still going to keep it up, then i guess you will have to think about your relationship twice before you take your next step.

From my past relationships i have learned a very important lesson, that is you should never force anyone to do anything, especially the girl. If you are having trouble with your relationship, and it reaches a situation that it can not go any further, at this point never force the either to continue the relationship. Forcing someone to continue only makes things worse. By chance if you continue, it only going to get worse. If he or she wants to leave the relationship, let them because if they truly want to continue the relationship they will come back to you. And if they do come back on their own, then be sure, the relationship will only get stronger. Coming back on their own means that they have realized what had gone wrong. Forcing someone to think that they have done something wrong will only make them think that they have not done anything wrong. So next time you are in such a situation, be sure not to make such mistakes.

I find that doing the following things everyday keeps a relationship going strong because it simply says that you are in his/her thought at that moment and your are not forgotten when away.

1. Give a miss call on her/his mobile when you get up in the morning.

2. Send a small good morning text while you are having tea.

3. Miss call her/him when ever a thought comes into your mind.

4. Secretly leave a reminder on her/his mobile, so that the alarm goes on when she is least expecting it.

5. Secretly fill her/his mobile calendar with messages for each day, believe me, they would love waking up to a lovely message each morning, i definitely would.

6. Last but not least, send her/him a message just before you go to sleep wishing her/him a good night ending with the words I LOVE YOU.


Try them and see and I assure you that your relationship will be stronger than before.

I have a friend, and this friend of mine always had a problem with relationships. I will call this friend X. Now X has this ego problem. She has pre set views on how her boyfriend or lover should be. And whenever she meets someone, she is always looking for those predetermined facts. But, till date she has not found that person. I tried explaining to her many times, do not go searching for certain characteristics in people. In fact, the very first thing you should look for in a person is whether you are comfortable with him or her. Do you have to act as if you are someone else in front of him, or can you be yourself. Will you be able to act a little childish, do something silly or just talk your mind out. Does he or she get bored of such things. Well, if they dont, then i tell you, this is the person you should give a chance to. Because, falling in love means, finding that right partner where you can do all the things you already do and he or she will also join in. When we share same feelings, same qualities, same likes and dislikes, then we might have hit the jack pot.

Well, this is what i explained to her. But she still does not understand. What do you guys say, do you think I am at least a little right? Let me know who else supports me on this so that i can tell my friend X that what I am telling her is not just my view.

Thank you.